When love just isn't

Even though I am a strong believer in love I also believe that there is more to a relationship than just love such as honesty, trust and even basic communication could be added to this list. I have known persons who have tried to live with just “love” in a relationship and it is failing drastically.

Being in a relationship is not any easy road to take. You must be emotionally, physically, mentally as well as spiritually. Before getting into a relationship ensure that the person is at your level in terms of education, future goals and even sexual experiences.

If you have ever been with a person that is above you or below you, you may feel either inferior because the person may be getting on with there life and leaving you behind or you would have to help the other person so much that your goals and dreams get pushed back.

This may be harsh but think of your past relationship and make a list; yeah it may seem funny but make the list and check this out. Write the names of your ex’s on one side and the reasons why you broke up with them. What are the similarities in them? Yes some persons you felt as though they were leaving you behind while others just did not make the cut. Don’t worry women are judging you in the same manner as well.

Love as nice as it sounds is a verb. A verb is a doing or action word so if you have a girl or London escort that does nothing but sit at home and watch television whole day ask yourself what they are doing in the relationship to love you. You are showing love by bringing in the bacon and ensuring that they have a nice lifestyle but what are they doing? Always keep that question in your mind.

If persons want to say that love conquers all then write out a list that will help you to define how the other person should show you how much they love you. Don’t be afraid to share it and encourage them to share a list as well since everyone’s definition of love is different. You girl’s definition of love may be different from the London escorts definition of love.

Love is a word that is used to loosely when it comes to relationships because everyone wants to get a piece of the pie and use it to their advantage. Ensure that you are not a sucker for this.

What do you do when you are surrounded by persons who are just so darn negative? In life as you have realised there is a variety of persons that just make up society, some good, some bad, some ugly and some as pretty as London escorts but persons with negative attitudes are persons that you don’t want around you.

Have you ever realised that persons with negative attitudes can bring down the tone of a lively room? In life things happen that you can’t change such as death, divorce or even sheer embarrassment. Some persons can deal with it while other can’t.

Negative persons are persons who can’t deal with the crap that life throws at them so they try to pull down everyone around them. These persons also tend to take the role of victims. Listen to them carefully at how they speak about themselves always stating how bad things always happen to them and they don’t know why.

Well duh the first thing they would need to do get a better attitude. Associating with persons who have negative attitudes can slowly affect your life, the saying birds of a feather flock together is true to its word. You will slowly change into someone you won’t be able to recognize. Your friends and family will seethe changes long before you do. It may even be noticeable to the London escort.

If you need to associate with negative person don’t do it on an every basis